(Closed) Monster

posted 5 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
4979 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2018

You shouldn’t allow these +3s and 4s. You’ve already been more than generous by inviting all these aunts and uncles! They’re being rude by inviting extra people. 

Call the people (or have someone else do it) who have invited extra guests and tell them they can’t bring all these other people. You don’t need to find a new venue for people you didn’t even invite.

Post # 4
37 posts
  • Wedding: June 2014

Your wedding is in a month and you’re thinking of switching venues?  No way.  Put your foot down about the extra guests.

Post # 5
615 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2014 - Smithfield Center

Whatever it is you decide to do, you need to do it quick. 

Post # 6
2869 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

I’d call the people with more than +1 and politely explain that you do not have the capacity for those extra guests.  And do it fast.  Don’t change your venue now, that’s just ridiculous and adds unnecessary stress.

Post # 7
403 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

I agree with the other ladies. The uninvited guests who got RSVP’ed need to be cut. I would tell these people that you were planning an intimate wedding that has now expanded past the capacity of the venue.

I also wanted to be married with 10 people on a beach…. I feel lucky reading your post. My wedding only expanded to about 50 people .

Post # 9
2250 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

@KismetBuckley:  Exactly, you can’t please everyone! I’m glad you’ve started making the calls, it will be a big weight off your shoulders. Hopefully you can get everything sorted out so that you can actually enjoy your wedding day 🙂 Congrats on your BFP!

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