(Closed) Overwhelmed

posted 9 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
Member
14186 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

We decided to skip the wedding gifts because they get to be so overwhelming on top of everything! We decided to splurge on a refrigerator for ourselves….after the wedding =]. Have you considered something like that? It might make life a little smoother

 Deep breath! Try to make a checklist. I always feel really overwhelmed until i write it down, then i go "oh that’s not too bad!" and sometimes it’s still *bad* but at least i feel more productive

Post # 4
Member
1149 posts
Bumble bee

I agree, a list with target completion dates will go a long way toward keeping your organized, on top of things and calm. 

I think a pocketwatch is a lovely idea!!  If possible, leave some space beneath your wedding date for future engravings — you could create a beautiful heirloom which you might someday pass on to your son (or FSIL), and they could pass on, and so on, etc.

Good luck!  Take a deep breath, it will all come together!

Post # 5
Member
48 posts
Newbee
  • Wedding: July 2009

Mizunoheaven – I can comiserate.  I totally feel the same way.  I can’t even sleep properly because I keep thinking of my to do list.  You are a little further along than I a (we are end of July).  Sounds like you have things under control.  And just the act of writing what I wrote below makes me feel a little bit better and more controlled.   

 We are (hopefully) sending out our diy wedding invitations this week and I am still collecting addresses.  I’ve been working 12 hour days at work for the past two weeks with entirely too much to do.  I’ve been feeling nasceous, which is probably stress, but I can’t help wondering if I’m pregnant (its entirely too early for me to be feeling symptoms, so I know its psychosomatic).  I have a million wedding details to take care of over the next two weeks (hiring last minute vendors, paying part of our balance, coordinating with friends who agreed to do certain day-off wedding tasks, make final dress fitting appointment, find a hairdresser, print out escort cards, meet with our florist – all 3+ hours away from where I live).  Everytime I talk to my mom she harps on whether she should invite her friend x that isn’t on the list.  This morning my fiance and I had a blowout fight over the wedding, and looking back I have no idea what it was really about but I know he is really upset. 

 

Post # 6
Member
2641 posts
Sugar bee

We skipped wedding gifts to each other too. 

I think your laast minute stres is understandable and common.  I agree about staying organized.  Try not to stress too much.  If you don’t get that last shoppng trip under your belt, what will happen?

The topic ‘Overwhelmed’ is closed to new replies.

Find Amazing Vendors