(Closed) Reassurance

posted 5 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
Member
3170 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

Just explain to him that while you are very excited to marry him you have some questions and you need him to be understanding and patient with you. Marriage is a big deal and you have every right to have questions! Congrats!

Post # 4
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1513 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

questions about your wedding plans?

Post # 6
Member
202 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

You can ask the bees your questions 🙂  I’m positive the examples you mentioned are things I’ve see here on the bee.

Post # 7
Member
959 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

@Ribeka: I would say take it with ease in regards to all your questions. You will both find out answers to your questions because every couple is different. I am also in your same shoes because I don’t have any married friends but FI does. It’s natural to have questions about marriage since it’s a big step in life but both of you will figure out what’s best for you both in due time. For example, FI’s married friends all lived together before they got married and when FI finally bought up the topic regarding us, I told him my preference which was not to live together. Just keep in mind, each relationship is different and dynamics of it vary from one couple to another so other people’s experiences or choices may work out for you.

Post # 8
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26 posts
Newbee
  • Wedding: October 2012

In general, men get freaked out about wedding preperations. That’s why I joined this site! I think if I asked my FI one more question he would’ve died! There are so many boards online (especially this one) that will answer anything you need! If you have a specific question about your budget or one of his married friends then of course ask him, otherwise that’s what we’re all here for!

Post # 9
Hostess
23809 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2011

That’s what weddingbee is for! 🙂  To take the pressure off of SO/FI/DH!

Post # 10
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1719 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

@Ribeka:  I had the same questions as well when I was engaged.  I didn’t want to make the DH felt like I had doubts so I went and asked everyone else (incl. weddingbees) about it.  lol

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