(Closed) Torn

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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2289 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2010

Honestly several people have told me that eloping is very refreshing. And it can be as elaborate or as simple as you like, same with a wedding. You don’t have to have a traditional wedding if it’s not working for you…just the one that works for you.

Post # 4
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8353 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: March 2011

You and your Fiance are the only ones that can make that decision. If you both want to elope, are you going to lose your deposits? If you elope, will either of you regret it? If you have a traditional wedding, will either of you regret it?

Post # 5
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51 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Have you ever considered a destination wedding? My sister-in-law and her husband did that. They said that they wouldn’t have had it any other way and it made the ceremony more personal and romantic. Their trip was all inclusive all they paid for were souvenirs and the dress she wore…just a thought

 

Good Luck!!

Post # 6
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311 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

Do what makes you and your Fiance happy.  Just remember that you could regret it and hurt family members.  Planning my wedding has really showed me how much family looks forward to it.  My Mom still has a hard time with my brother eloping 12 years ago.  There will be bumps and fights and vendor problems but that day is going to be amazing.  The last month is the worst!  Good luck in your decision. 

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