MemberI’m with most of the other posters … one word: jealousy!!
Congrats and just keep you head up and keep on doing wahtever you’re doing (which is what?! I’d love to know the secret to a flat tummy!)
MemberI would just LAUGH…and I did!
A couple of years ago my childhood friend in the country where I grew up got divorced…the reason ME!! Some friends frantically called me to ask if I had been the reason her husband left her…my reaction WHAAAAA??? LOL…1. I don’t live in that country, 2. I haven’t been in that country for over 10 yrs. 3. I don’t talk to them at all!
I just laughed the rumor away and anybody that asked got told: "you’re joking righ? I don’t even live there!" your response could be: "you’re joking, right? I’m only 20somthing! I have better things to spend my money on" When you laugh at them they will be the ones feeling stupid and they’ll stop.
Good luck!
MemberYep, jealous.
I have always been on the thin side and within the past 6 months I have been working out more and watching what I eat more. I mean, I have a wedding and honeymoon to get ready for! 
I have lost only about 5 pounds but have toned up a lot and look thinner. Our friend’s wife (who is a b**ch and not-so-thin) commented to my Fiance and a group of others at a bar saying "looks like [me] has gotten really skinny. She’s being healthy about it, right?" This chic has never shown concern for anyone other than herself in her whole life and I had a bunch of people come up to me and tell me they know she is just jealous.
Take it in stride and try (as hard as it is) to not let it bug you!
MemberYour posters all made me laugh! It’s even more ridiculous today than yesterday. If i ever end up at a bar with these girls I totally should play it up like i had one just to mess with them, then tell them how stupid they all are for believing it in the first place! LoL
It’s funny that no matter what kind of "compliment" or comment somebody gives you about your weight, it always stings more than it should. I can always brush off the stupid speculations about whether or not my "girls" are real (to which I say, I’ll show you just how real they look after I have two kids and they ain’t perky no more! ha) but this really ate at me. I love how you all have some humor to throw my way though
MemberLOL!!!!
I totally second JennyBryde!
They think you got a tummy tuck because they don’t understand how you look so good!
Screw them! Maybe send them a postcard from your honeymoon in that bikini with you NATURALLY flat tummy! LOL!
MemberMaybe I should anonymously mail them cards for plastic surgeons….
MemberCongratulations on trimming yourself up! As for the immature girls who are talking about your "tummy tuck" – ignore them! They’re just jealous that they don’t look like your fabulous self
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