(Closed) A bit of a rant…..

posted 9 years ago in Family
Post # 3
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14186 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

Wow. Your poor FSIL! That is really rough. I wouldn’t want him there eitherl Hopefully being fresh out of rehab makes him check his bad behavior at the door. Unless you are secretly hoping he doesn’t show up. I’m so sorry you and your Fiance have to deal with this. How awful! Ugh. Is there a family member that can keep everyone in line?

Post # 4
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1205 posts
Bumble bee

Wow – hugs to you and Fiance.  That’s hard.  Just remember that Fiance father is not the most reliable person, so this may not even happen.    Take a deep breath and tell Fiance to say “that’s my family, it’s not me”.  You guys will be fine and no matter who tries to steal your thunder, you’ll be married and have each other forever.  THAT’s what matters.  Hang in there.

Post # 6
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14186 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

Sometimes it takes more than 1 time to clean up…somebody has to hit rock bottom before they have the desire to get clean. Maybe he hasn’t hit it yet? There’s hope. 

Post # 8
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4567 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

*hugs* I’m really sorry you’re having to deal with all this at the same time you are trying to plan the biggest event of your life! Whatever you Fiance decides to do, I’m sure you’ll be really supportive and really, that’s all you can do right now. Good luck!

Post # 9
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1490 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 1969

Bad parents can happen to good people and it makes life really, really hard. I left my own parents when I was fifteen and became a dependent of the court and now I have no contact with them, which is really much, much better in my situation. Sometimes you just have to keep toxic people out of your lives when they can’t contribute positively. I wish you, your Fiance, and Future Sister-In-Law the best.

 

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