(Closed) A bit tired of this.

posted 6 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2015

I don’t have a promise ring per se, but I did get a ring from my SO for my birthday that I used to wear on my ring finger.  After one of his friends freaked out in a bar thinking we were engaged I changed hands.  I know it’s frustrating.  I really liked wearing it on that finger, but I guess when we do get engaged it’ll be all the more special.

Post # 4
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

@Lulume:  I went threw the same thing! SO bought me a promise ring for our 1 year anniversary. I used to wear it on my ering finger but stopped because everyone thought we were engaged and it was frustrating. So then I started wearing it on my right hand, now i’m waiing 4 years later for him to get me my left hand ring!!! UGH!

Post # 6
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Worker bee

I have always worn my promise ring on my right hand, although I still get second glances from people asking if there is something they missed, then I have to say “Wrong hand!” ๐Ÿ™‚ haha

It might give him a kick in the right direction, FINGERS CROSSED ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 7
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2013

@Lulume:  that SSSUUUUUUUCKS! ๐Ÿ™ 

Post # 8
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: March 2014

That seems like an awfully long time to wait at the age(s) the two of you are. If it were me (and as long as there weren’t any extinuating circumstances such as needing to graduate, etc.) I’d have a “Come to Jesus” talk with him. He’s 37. He should know what he wants by now, and he’d best stop dragging his feet if you two want to have a family!

The fact that he dodged the topic reeally worries me for you.

Post # 9
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

Girl, I’ve had a promise ring on that finger for 4 years now! It sucks royally but when i got the promise ring we were moving cross-country & decided that a wedding was the end goal of our 5 year plan after the move. 5 years is next summer, and we’ve got a date set-But damn if I’m not still waiting on a REAL ring! It’s soo annoying sometimes!

Post # 11
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Blushing bee

This may sound reallllly mean but I am actually just genuinely curious… What did you bees expect people to think when you put a ring on the finger one wears a ring on if they are engaged?  lol maybe i’m just being dense… it has been a long day. ><

Post # 13
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Blushing bee

@Lulume:  aw! That’s really sweet, I definitely would’ve kept it there too then ๐Ÿ™‚ Hopefully the real deal is not too far off!! 

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