(Closed) A bridal shower and stagette for a small destination wedding?

posted 5 years ago in Parties
  • poll: Is this acceptable or rude?
    Totally fine—go for it! : (2 votes)
    50 %
    Big faux pas— not a good idea : (1 votes)
    25 %
    other (explain) : (1 votes)
    25 %
  • Post # 3
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    Helper bee
    • Wedding: November 1999

    I had a small wedding with just family. My friends and colleagues totally wanted to celebrate though! I had a small work shower and then my friends through a bachelorette party for me. Maybe do it with just her closest friends who aren’t invited? I would start by talking to some of these people and seeing how they feel about things. I wouldn’t do anything big, and still keep things small though.

    For example, on my friends side…they started with a late  “shower” and then there was the bar/dinner stuff. Some came to one and not the other, some to both.

    Post # 4
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: March 2013

    @jules28:  id say stagette is more fine as its a celebration but not a gift giving occasion. its just a fun night with friends. but still, people might be offended its hard to say

    thing is, if people are invited to a bridal shower (ie a gift giving occasion) it might look a bit greedy. “you cant come to my wedding but give me a present”. this is how a lot of people think. only you know if people would react that way

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