(Closed) a bride but never was a bridesmaid

posted 6 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
330 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

none of my good friends have gotten married yet, but i know at least two of them will ask me and those are the two that I will ask

Post # 4
1327 posts
Bumble bee

I have not been invited to a single friends wedding yet, so I certainally haven’t been a bridesmaid either.

Post # 5
5093 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: January 2012

I’ve been a bridesmaid once, but that girl won’t be one of mine.  Out of my six BMs, three are married, and I wasn’t a Bridesmaid or Best Man for a single one (though I didn’t know one of them when she got married).  Oh well.  These are the girls I want, and they’re *my* good friends.  They’re the ladies I want by my side.

Post # 7
899 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

I’m getting married and have yet to be a bridesmaid. I was a flower girl when I was 8, for my cousin’s first marriage, but that’s it. I guess no one I know is really close to marriage right now.

Post # 9
3316 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2009

I’m 58 years old, have been married twice, but have never been a bridesmaid.  At this point, I’m assuming it’s not going to happen.

In fairness, I kept my own wedding party (both times) very small and family only.

Post # 10
10568 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: January 2011

My sister and I were both each other’s Maid/Matron of Honor (she got married first).  Besides that, I have never been a bridesmaid.  Of the girls I asked, I think the one I know the longest will ask me.  It was the first time she had been a bridesmaid and I know it meant a lot to her (and she was soooo helpful!).  The other friend I really don’t know if she would ask me (and that hurts a little), and SIL isn’t planning on getting married and I think it’s also a little different as we’re now family, and not about to become family.  I think she would at least include me somehow though.

Post # 11
51 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

im getting married and have never been in a wedding either. my Maid/Matron of Honor will be married by the tim my wedding happens but idk if i will be in her wedding party

Post # 12
7609 posts
Bumble Beekeeper

I’m sure it wasn’t because you were never good enough!  I’ve never been a Bridesmaid or Best Man either.  Now that I think of it, no one really close to me has ever gotten married.  My 3 BMs aren’t married yet (2 are single right now), so hopefully I’ll be asked to be in at least one of their weddings when the time comes. πŸ™‚

Post # 14
23620 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2011

I’ve never been a bridesmaid either – one of my girl friends chose not to have a bridal party at all, and the other one just had too many sisters and SILs to have room for friends.

Post # 15
331 posts
Helper bee

On the bright side, you didn’t have to shell out $200 on a dress that you “can always shorten and wear again!”   πŸ™‚

Post # 16
233 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: February 2012

Never was a bridesmaid either.  πŸ™‚  My best chance was at my brother’s wedding, but I barely knew his wife so that didn’t happen!  

Look on the bright side, as least we never had to buy or wear any ugly bridesmaid dresses!!


HA!  Diet Coke and I think alike.  πŸ™‚

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