posted 14 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
453 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2008

Joelnsusan, that really sucks for them.  I am sure that they can take the owner to small claims court.  Could I also ask a favor?  Could you repost this with proper capitalization?  It is considered poor netiquette to type in all caps, it’s the equivilent of being yelled at.  It is also very difficult on the eyes.  Thanks!

Post # 4
1485 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2008

That is awful.  But I don’t actually think it’s a bride’s worst nightmare.  Obviously it’s not what they planned, but it’s not like her parents, or her Fiance, was terribly injured or killed in a car accident or something like that.  I’m not saying there is no stress involved, but in this kind of situation I think you do have to focus on the one really important thing – the marriage – as opposed to the party.  And really, two weeks is a lot of time.  It will be just fine if the boys all wear matching pants and white shirts and ties – you can go to Macy’s or MWH and outfit them in a day.  For the girls, try Nordstrom or Ann Taylor – for my sister’s wedding the BMs all wore dresses from Nordstrom.  Both places also have formal white dresses that are very nice.  If you get online tonight you can have them by Wednesday or Thursday, easy.  Just forget about the shop for right now – concentrate on the wedding.  The clothes can totally be replaced, with something that will work just fine.  In 2 1/2 weeks, after the wedding is over, put an ad in the paper, get together with the other clients who were stiffed, hire a private detective, find the store owner, get a lawyer, and see what you can do about getting the money back.

FYI, I agree with Niki about the caps.  You might type a couple of words in all caps for emphasis, but for an entire post you should really use appropriate capitalization.

Post # 5
800 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2009

I heard of this happening to somebody. They had their friends and family stake out the store in shifts and watch for any owners to come back; when they finally did, they argued with them til they got their dress. They also called the local news.

bad luck, yes, but definitely not a worst nightmare. 

Post # 7
26 posts
  • Wedding: January 2022

i don’t care about caps. seems to me like you should be able to write however you want, as long as you are not saying rude things. if it hurts people’s eyes they don’t have to read / respond to your post.

i just wanted to say that this did happen to a friend of mine. fortunately, macy’s and dillards always have dress sales going on, especially during prom season (now). and preownedweddingdresses.com for the bride’s dress. i think the hardest thing might be getting the guy’s tuxes in less than 2 weeks… 

Post # 8
116 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: December 1969

Believe me, suzanno is right, your friend could have it worst.  My dear fiance was in a fatal car accident and our July wedding is never going to ever happen! 

Post # 9
138 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2008

Lanny,  I am so incredibly sorry.  You haven’t posted in a month – when did this happen?  I feel absolutely awful for you and your families.

Post # 10
1929 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: February 2008

Lanny6 – I am so unbelievably sorry to hear that.  I know I don’t know you, but my heart goes out to you and your families. 

Post # 11
104 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: July 2008

Lanny, I am SO sorry to hear about your loss. 

Post # 14
30 posts
  • Wedding: July 2008

lanny so sorry to hear, my thoughts are with you.

 joelnsusan, i actually worked with a girl who had a similar thing happen to her, sort of luckily it was only her dress and not the whole wedding parties clothes. 2 weeks i’m sure is time enough for someone to get back to your friend and get their clothing. 

Post # 15
50 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: January 2022

you should also tell your friend to see about calling their credit card companies (if that is how they paid) to see about getting a refund since the company didn’t follow through- its worth a shot!!

Post # 16
187 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: March 2008


sending positive thoughts and lots of hugs to you and your family in a time that reminds us all what is truly important in life.  May the sun continue to shine brighter for you every day and know that even in the worst of times, better days are only a stone’s throw away.

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