(Closed) A bridesmaid that needs to rrealize that words are the reason she was asked to l

posted 6 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Every story always has two sides and somewhere in the middle is the truth.

I suggest you focus on your daughter’s wedding and don’t stoop to following drama online. Your daughter is an adult, she can fight her own battles.

Frankly, your post sounds a little crazy, give it up, move on and focus on what’s important.

Post # 4
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5763 posts
Bee Keeper

You’re really continuing on this drama on the internet at your age? Who needs to grow up here?

Wow. I’m a Mom too, but stopped fighting my daughters’ battles when they were about 7.

Post # 6
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Is this really necessary? I have to agree with PPs, this just makes you look crazy.

Post # 9
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444 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I understand you wanting to clear your daughters name in whatever way you can (my mom would do the same thing!)  But don’t worry, just forget that girl, make sure that she doesn’t harass your daughter anymore and take it up with her irl.  None of us here know either girl…if that bridesmaid wants to be childish on the internet just let her, she can try to get sympathy all she wants but it won’t solve her problems.  Focus on your daughters wedding and forget the negativity 🙂

Post # 10
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Bumble bee

Slander? Seriously? Ohhhhhkay……..Undecided

Post # 11
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Buzzing Beekeeper

Mom, I think it’s time you let your daughter and her friends figure these things out on their own. I feel like most of us had to do that sometime around elementary school. Put the frivilous lawsuit threats away and focus on a day of happiness and adulthood.

 

Post # 12
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

“I did try to get her and my daughter together to clear things up, but the bridesmaid refused for good reason and yes I agreed that they needed more time to clear there heads.”

 

“So it might of started about hair, but my daughter was going to try and work it out even knowing her bridesmaid was lying the whole time and only was telling half truths. “

So you are acknowledging that this whole mess is because the bride was anal about the hair of one bridesmaid and that you actually understood where the bridesmaid was coming from.

Im sorry, but seriously this is something that needs to be handled in real life by your daughter, not her mother. And insulting another person’s mothering in your second to last comment on this thread just pretty much earned a flag from me. Thats not incredibly grown up to say something like that to another mother at all.

Your daughter started this whole thing about hair. I think a change in perspective is in order here.

 

Post # 13
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

@KatyElle:  +1….it is not slander, she never even mentioned your daughter’s name…btw your text message to her which stated that your agreement was only verbal, just made it a written agreement! Either way, the fact that you are on here shows extraordinary pettiness and I am sure is not going to do anything to add to your daughter’s happiness on her big day.

Post # 14
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5148 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

“So to that bridesmaid, my advice to you is to grow up

Someone needs to take their own advice.

Post # 15
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181 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Did she call her that name before or after she demanded her bridesmaid not cut her hair?

 

Post # 16
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

(If that’s true.)

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