(Closed) A case of the dreaded Ring Regret- advice please!!

posted 5 years ago in Rings
Post # 3
5851 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2013

@NurseAllie85:  Uh if it makes you feel any better, I like the simple solitaire you chose 10000000 times more than that other setting!!! It looks way too over the top In My Humble Opinion, and like it would scratch your fingers, and also I agree about the teeny tiny stones being a pain. If you really think you cant get over it, why not go buy a super similar costime piece for your stand in or your right hand?

Post # 4
100 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

I feel the simple setting will be much more timeless. When I’m looking at the second setting, all I can think of is how long it’d take to clean(i do agree it’s pretty).


Post # 5
7437 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: February 2013

I like the 2nd setting, but only in white gold. I think since you’re going with rose gold, the first setting will look better.

Post # 6
330 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: February 1994

@NurseAllie85:  I’m sure the 2nd setting is gorgeous (with all that sparkly diamonds) but I’m really not a fan of the “diamond encrusted prongs”, eventually it’ll give you lots of problems. Even tho you didn’t post a top view but I feel that ring#2 is too busy looking!

I’m all for simple/classic solitaire and pair with a “killer” band. Laughing

Congrats on your engagement.

Post # 8
758 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2014 - Our Backyard/Steakhouse

I definitely prefer the simple setting.  It is timeless, less fussy and allows the diamond to be the focus and truly shine.

Post # 9
2716 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2007

@NurseAllie85:  The solitaire will be gorgeous! I simple solitaire is timeless, elegant and you will likely feel more comfortable wearing it all the time. The second setting is pretty, but I would be so worried aout losing stones, I’d have to do hourly diamond checks! 

Post # 10
97 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: February 1994

@NurseAllie85:  If you really love the bling and sparkle, why not go shopping for a blingy wedding band? I love your solitaire, and the rose gold.  

A little secret: we all think about the other rings we could have had. Don’t worry, you’re not alone.  With the possibilities being so endless these days, we always wonder if we didn’t choose the right one.  It’s the paradox of choice. Here’s my favorite Ted Talk of all time, it will help ease your mind, I promise. 

Post # 11
8041 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2013

I think that once you have the ring on your finger, you’ll likely forget about the more ornate setting.

If you don’t, then I would see if there is some sort of return window. And I agree with PP – you could find a blingy wedding band.

Post # 12
564 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2015

While the second one is beautiful, I think it will likely be something that’s a ring-crush. Your ring is classic, beautiful, and something you will love for a lifetime. 

Also – you can always get super sparkly band, or a wrap!

Post # 13
2070 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2014

Honestly, I love the ring you bought so much more, the simple setting is so elegant.  And I think you will love how practical it is too once you have it for a while! 

Post # 14
1649 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2000

I prefer the second one because I like more ornate settings, but once the ring is on your finger, I think you will still love it.  Plus you can go all out for the wedding band.

Post # 15
687 posts
Busy bee

What size is your center diamond, I feel like those thick prongs on the ornate ring might actually overwhelm a center stone somewhat.  I would be disappointed more if that were to happen.

Regarding your solitare, I went through similar emotions.  My Fiance was very concerned with the “sturdiness” of the ring and he chose a simple setting for me much like yours.  And when I look at it on my finger, I love that he chose it for me.  He’s very proud of it, and the process he went through to pick it out for me, and that makes me love it.  Maybe you will feel the same way.  Plus you have lots of options for picking out a wedding band to go with it.  🙂

Post # 16
3210 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2015

@NurseAllie85:  I think you made a beautiful and classic choice! I have a similar prong setting to the one you liked, and your jeweller is right — the sideview of the diamond is totally obstructed. I actually don’t even remember what mine looks like! My mom has a 4 prong ring and I often look at her ring from the side and it is so pretty! While my setting is very delicate, there is more metal than a simple solitaire. I don’t really miss or regret being able to see the side of the stone, but a lot of people would. I also have pave on the prongs but they’re pretty high quality micro prong set stones. I’m not too worried about it, and I have started to shower/sleep with my ring on with no problems.

If you do want some sparkle/bling, add some pave bands instead! The great thing about a solitaire is that you can dress it up or down 🙂


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