(Closed) A convicted sexual predator is coming to my wedding

posted 10 years ago in Christian
Post # 32
1573 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2009

he probably wont be doing anything at the wedding but it will put a damper on your wedding why make your wedding negative; it should be hte happiest day of your life you shouldnt be concerned making other people happy; do what you feel is right; if you had kids you wouldnt have your kids around an offender, think of it that way


just say sorry, you have to retract the invitation due to unforseen circumstances and leave it at that, you are the bride, it’s your prerogative

when you invite dont ever assume that person will not make it; people go to great lengths to attend a wedding; good luck! 

Post # 33
2394 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2010

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@missbbc:  Same.  Perhaps more to the point, I would be furious if I discovered that a friend had kept this information to herelf and not given me the option of deciding to withdraw my child from the wedding.

Post # 34
305 posts
Helper bee

I agree that telling people could possibly start a very ugly mob-mentality situation.  And your wedding shouldn’t be the time or place for a lynch mob if people get drunk and out of control.

Since you don’t really know him, maybe call your mom and make it clear to her that his presence is only acceptable at your wedding if he has notified all the proper authorities.  (Your driving to avoid the airport comment raises some red flags).  If this isn’t something he can comply with state that you’d rather he not attend.

Post # 35
3048 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: January 1991

@Daisydew: It looks like I read your comment wrong. Is he driving in order to not get caught at the airport. Or is him driving push up red flags for you that he is doing this to get away from authorities? I can’t tell from your comment whether he’s actually doing what you said, or if it’s an assumption. If he’s actually doing it, you can disregard my comment about it in my last post, sorry! 🙂

Post # 37
72 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

@Daisydew Good Luck! I wish you all of the best

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