- 10 years ago
- Wedding: February 2011
But many feminists use feminism as a reason to NOT take her husband’s name and are often opposed to the practice as a whole because of what they think it stands for and represents. I disagree with those beliefs (among other things that many feminists also promote/stand for – name change is just my WB related example).
I have to say that when we think of the word ‘feminist’, we think of all things negative: man-bashing, a woman who ‘acts like a man’, etc. I agree with PP’s that feminism is just fighting for EQUAL rights with men. It’s only fair right?
I’ve been told I was a feminist many times – mostly by women. I am not a feminist just because I believe that women dont always have to cook and clean and never go to college. But, if a feminist is a woman who believes that all women should be treated fairly and not discriminated because they are females, then yes, I am a feminist.
We have to get rid of all the negative connotations that go along with the word. We’re not in the 60s anymore and burning our bras. We’re just not accepting that we have any less value than a man does.
I was raised to be a feminist of sorts- but I don’t actually call myself that. I am an equalist, so-to-say.
NYE Gal I think both of those people were acting “outdated.” You were simply just stating proper business etiquette with the first person who sounded a little rude in his comment (calling you that- but maybe he didn’t mean to be rude- just saying- HE was sounding antiquated IMO). As to the indicent with the paper, you were just pointing out an inaccurate statement and representation of what would be happening with the leagues. For all you know, you were pointing out a clear mistake. That doesn’t mean you should be called a feminist. I think calling someone that is a little outdated and… ridiculous.
I was raised to think of women as equals by my father- he felt that giving women (and men) confidence and security through education and equal treatment and skills allowed for a better society and a happier one for all- whatever those women (or men) ended up doing in life- even being a stay-at-home mom or dad.
Feminism refers to movements aimed at establishing and defending equal political, economic, and social rights and equal opportunities for women. Its concepts overlap with those of women’s rights. Feminism is mainly focused on women’s issues, but because feminism seeks gender equality, some feminists argue that men’s liberation is therefore a necessary part of feminism, and that men are also harmed by sexism and gender roles. Feminists—that is, persons practicing feminism—can be persons of either sex.
Feminist theory emerged from these feminist movements and includes general theories and theories about the origins of inequality, and, in some cases, about the social construction of sex and gender, in a variety of disciplines. Feminist activists have campaigned for women’s rights—such as in contract, property, and voting—while also promoting women’s rights to bodily integrity and autonomy and reproductive rights. They have opposed domestic violence, sexual harassment, and sexual assault. In economics, they have advocated for workplace rights, including equal pay and opportunities for careers and to start businesses.
I’m just curious to the 8 people that said ‘not a feminist at all’ and I’m NOT being a smartass. I would just like to know why you don’t think that women and men should be equal in all things. I guess I’m so curious because I don’t know ANYONE that thinks that way at all. Even the elderly people I know think that women should be allowed to vote, hold a job, go to school for what they want, not get married, own real estate – all of the things that equate to what being a feminist means. As women, it seems odd to me that you wouldn’t want to have those rights and I’d love if someone could fill me in on those different views.
Yes thanks! I was afraid that ‘Luckyprincess Funkyfunkyblahblah’ would be too long but I do think it sounds nice 😛
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