Post # 17
we are in similar boat. he is 35 and i am 32. we’ve lived together for just over a year and this is both of our first marriages.
we are both very excited to get married and feel nervous at the same time.
and we are getting married the day before you.
the only difference is that we have never had a fight, yes we have had disagreements but we talk them out.
make sure you are both on the same page and keep lines of communication open. talk everything out and try to reach a compromise that makes everyone happy.
Post # 18
@nelsondela: Weddings are very stressful and very expensive, and it was just several weeks ago that we were having little discussions over finances in the weeks before the wedding. You will be more in love than ever before on wedding day & the honeymoon will make up for the pre-wedding stress 🙂
Post # 19
@megz06 Our finances are combined so it is my business. But I agree with you, perhaps it’s not fair that i wouldn’t have been upset about it being a present for myself. I reiterate though it wasn’t the speakers that aggravated me as much as the sneakiness/hiding stuff. Yeah, I need to pick my battles while I maintain this one was worth some “heated discussion.”
@ajillity81 Good luck to you on your wedding! And God bless you guys for communicating so well!
Post # 20
@Dareebs Aw, thank you! I know you’re right and I appreciate the reminder of that!