(Closed) A fight for those who were concerned we haven't yet!

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
561 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

Is it just the engagement bills he doesn’t know about?

Post # 5
2360 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2018

@octohands:  I wouldn’t get too upset with him for not figuring out you’re about to propose.

Traditionally, women don’t propose- and i’m not saying you’re wrong to propose, just that it’s probably the LAST thing he, as a man, is expecting.

The thought of *me* proposing would never in a million years have crossed his mind. So go easy on the guy. ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 6
399 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

It is not really that heard about women proposing to their men. So that is not something that would ever come to his mind.

It sounds like you have a really great guy on your hands.  You are only very lucky lady!

I just love hearing your story! ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 7
9887 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

@octohands:   He’s a complete and patient sweetheart! 

Don’t take advantage of that quality.  Honestly, I think you had no right to lash out at him like that.  I hope you sincerely apologized to him.  Maybe you should give him a little hint about the pending proposal because you might snap before Christmas gets here, lol. 

I understand you’re stressed out, just do not take it out on other people, ever, especially not on the man you love.

Everyone in the world gets stressed out about money around the holidays.  You’re not alone in this.

Post # 9
1081 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

@octohands:  Pssh that’s hardly a fight. ๐Ÿ™‚

I understand stressing about money and work (who doesn’t?!).. And you WILL be fine, he’s right, but, I am also the type of person who gets angry when I’m told anything like “calm down,” “it’ll work out,” or “stop worrying” so I understand perfectly where you’re coming from.

BUT. if that’s the kind of fights you two are destined to have, then I think you made the right choice with your proposal! To end a fight with a hug is the only way to end a fight, and I’m glad it all worked out. ๐Ÿ™‚


Post # 10
6341 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2014

For me, pointless fighting like this is just that: pointless. It doesn’t achieve anything.

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