(Closed) Kissed somebody that wasnt my FH last night…

posted 5 years ago in Parties
Post # 3
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: February 2013

I’m curious what would give you the idea that because he is gay you are going to catch mono or some sort of STD. If he happened to be ill at the time, I suppose you could catch it, but mono knocked me straight on my ass and I definitely would not have been at a club when I had it. I would bet you’re just fine.

Post # 4
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

Oh my! Ha, I really don’t think you have anything to worry about. Getting kissed by a random person is an experience everyone should have and at your bachelorette makes for a great story! Plus, your FH sounds like a keeper! Good for you.

I’m just going with the idea that you’re worried about getting sick not because you assume this guy is gay, but because you weren’t sure of the risks of kissing someone you don’t know…

Post # 5
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

Just because you kissed a gay guy doesn’t mean you’re going to have some sort of sexually transmitted disease or infection; that can be a really offensive question to some. Their community already has to deal with so many stereotypes as is …. I think you’re just feeling a little guilty, but if your Fiance thinks it’s hilarious, then I would just relax and not over think it too much. 

Post # 6
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Honey bee

@sheepandbear:  I think you will be fine. STD means sexually transmitted disease….as in you need to have some sort of sexual interaction to transmit it. Mouth to mouth would not transmit an STD (other than oral herpes…but beyond childhood years, it is uncommon).

 

He may have had a cold, which you might get, but honestly I wouldn’t worry too much.

 

 

 

 

 

Post # 7
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

OP made a post a few days ago that her Fiance was coming down with something, I think she’s just in worry mode:) 

 

@sheepandbear:  Too funny!!! At least you had fun! 

Post # 8
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2016

@SweetDeeReynolds:  

@remijp:  

@Chelwilly:   I think she meant  does she have to worry about getting mono or a Sti ( like herpes)  from making out with a STRANGER.  I don’t think it had anything to do with him being a gay guy.

 

 

@sheepandbear:   I would edit your OP to reflect that.   The way it’s written I can See why pps have said what they have said. 

Post # 11
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: February 2013

@sheepandbear:  Oh, then I would definitely encourage you to adjust the original post a bit, as it read as being very focused on his sexual orientation as a factor in your STD concerns, and I wanted to gently confront potential myths there. I hope you had fun at the drag show! They are so fun.

Post # 12
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

lol

Post # 14
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

@sheepandbear:  gotcha! I’m sure you’re fine! 

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