(Closed) A girl from his past messaged him!

posted 7 years ago in Relationships
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  • Post # 3
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: August 2011

    Eh just sounds like an ex reaching out.  I wouldn’t worry about it.  From the tone of the message, seems like they haven’t talked in ages.  I’d just shrug it off.

    Post # 4
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    Buzzing Beekeeper

    That doesn’t seem like a big deal to me. You did say they were friends and never really dated. She’s probably curious about his life. She wished him well and didn’t try to initiate plans to meet up. I’d keep an eye out buy don’t make a big thing of it. He married you, not her in the end.

    Post # 5
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    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: September 2011

    Seems pretty harmless to me. Your hubby probably popped up on one of her FB friend’s sidebar of friends list. She’s not trying to meet up with him or initiate even any conversation.

    I wouldn’t worry about it.

    Post # 6
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    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: September 2011

    Also, seeing as it was sent at 2am I wouldn’t be surprised if she had partaken in an adult beverage or two prior to sending.

    Post # 9
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2010

    He’s yours now! I agree, I bet she was lonely/tipsy/drunk at 2am. I love that your Darling Husband forwarded her message to you. All is well 🙂 Oh, and if he wants no further contact…remember the block button!

    Post # 10
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    Buzzing bee

    @KatNYC2011 I would bet money that she had a few drinks while writing it. The entire thing has the air of “let me phrase things extra eloquently to hide the fact I’ve been drinking”. 

    All in all, it seems harmless enough.

    Post # 12
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    Helper bee
    • Wedding: April 2012

    I doubt she has any feelings for him at all. Recently I saw on fbook an ex who things had ended very badly with was married. A big part of me felt like now I could reach out and just say, congrats, glad your life is happy and that now it was “safe” to do so since he obviously was with someone else. I didn’t end up doing it but if I had it just would have been a way to close something bad with a moment of positivity so that looking back I didn’t always feel like “God I hope I never run into X at the grocery store…”

    Post # 13
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2010

    @bestbuddies: If she dosen’t hear back, she might become curious and try to click on his picture (which will no longer be his picture but a generic, faceless facebook one) and she won’t be able to connect to his profile anymore. Yes, in other words, she will get the hint but so what? Too bad so sad for her! That’s life and we can’t all always “just be friends”

    She will never again be able to find him on facebook. And if I were you, I’d click on her name and block her from your own profile. Can you tell I’m a pro at this and we’ve had to block a few people ourselves? LOL

    Post # 15
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    8738 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: September 2011

    @Gingersnap: Haha yeah it does. It’s the whole, I don’t want any one to know I’m drunk and reminiscing so I’m going to use extra big words and flowery turns of phrase to prove my sober-ness.

    Post # 16
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    1090 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: October 2011

    actually seems pretty nice. I wouldn’t worry about it. If it was me, I would probably respond but keep it very light.

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