(Closed) A groom-to-be and a fumbled engagement.

posted 8 years ago in Grooms/men
Post # 3
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Welcome! I think a lot of guys have gone through what you do. My Fiance didn’t end up giving me the proposal he intended and the ring wasn’t as flawless as he had hoped, but it doesn’t matter to me because its what it represents. The love you show for eachother is what matters in the end =). 

Post # 4
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

Welcome to the bee!

Post # 5
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

I think it is so sweet that you are trying to show her how much you care. It sounds like she is one lucky girl.

Post # 6
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

I hope she reads this. If I were her, I would be very moved by what you said! Valentines Day is Monday, and I hope that you show her how much she means to you and romance her til her toes curl! Obviously you are a guy with a heart and I think she is a lucky lady to have you.

Post # 7
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

Yay!  I like this post.  ๐Ÿ™‚ 

Post # 8
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: December 2010

Welcome to Weddingbee! She is one lucky girl!

Post # 9
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Buzzing bee

like

Post # 10
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: January 1992

Looks like it’ll be a fantastic Valentine’s day for one lady on here…

Post # 11
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

AWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW that’s MY Mr. Bee!!! I love you so much darlin’!

 

Post # 12
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

This is so sweet. Remember that it’s the thought and the effort that counts, not how much you spend. If you try to make her feel special, she will. My Fiance fumbled the proposal too but it was so sweet and so very him that I wouldn’t have it any other way.

Romantic gestures don’t have to cost a lot or any money. Getting some $5 flowers from the grocery store is just as good as getting $40 flowers from the florists. It’s the act of bringing home flowers to let her know that you’re thinking of her. Writing lists of favourite memories or what you like best about her is free and really touching.

Welcome to the bee!

Post # 13
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

She loves you and she’s wearing your ring! 

My proposal was a little lack luster. There was no profession of love or some elaborate proposal.  There was just a nervous “will you be my wife.” and really, it doesnt matter, because he asked and I said yes. 

 

Don’t worry, she said yes and she loves you! Just continue to be the best fiance and husband that you can be <3 

Congratulations and welcome ๐Ÿ™‚ 

Post # 14
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Newbee
  • Wedding: October 2012

Well, first off, congrats on the engagement.  I went through several different proposal ideas, but ultimately “settled” on one.  But, going into it, I was actually reassured by some jewelry store website video.  The proprietor of the store has a clip that noted many women won’t care about the size or the proposal… it’s the act of doing it and the moment in time that makes it special.  

And, if you’re still thinking on it, a spontaneous act of romance (somewhere down the road) never hurt.  Either way, best of luck with the planning!

Post # 15
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

I just printed this off and I’m keeping it in my wallet so I can look at it whenever I want to!

I love my groom-to-be so much and this means so much to me!

๐Ÿ˜€

Post # 16
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

Welcome!

And many many proposals are “fumbled”   Honestly, my man never proposed, he got me a ring and just handed it to me. We had already talked about getting married, so it wasn’t really even necessary.

Us women, we know how to fantasize a good story, and we know that our men love us, no matter how awkward they really are. ๐Ÿ™‚ (So are we! That’s our  big secret–oops!)

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