(Closed) A guest put my invitation on Facebook

posted 6 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
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8444 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2013

@mgol25:  I don’t think you’re a bridezilla for wanting it taken down.  It’s a privacy issue.  Plus, some people that didn’t get invited may get upset.  I think if you explained this to her, she’d understand and remove the post.

Post # 4
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4272 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

No you are not wrong….that would kind of tick me off too. Who does that?

Post # 5
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

@mgol25:  totally agree with you. id ask to have it taken down.

Post # 6
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

I would be upset as well. Why not just have you Fiance ask her to remove it and let her know that you don’t want your personal information and wedding information all over facebook since many people weren’t invited. I’m sure she will understand.

Post # 7
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Busy bee

Just send her a message and kindly ask her to remove it because all of your personal information is on Facebook about your event and you don’t want it all over social media sites.  

Post # 8
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5242 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: April 2013

I would be super pissed if someone did this to me!!!! I had a very original invite that I worked very hard on and one friend wanted to put it on facebook but she asked me first and I said no I did not want it up there

Post # 9
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

She was totally out of line to post that with your wedding info up there.  

Post # 10
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

That’s rude and you’re not wrong for asking it to be taken down. Maybe to soften the blow, you could say that you don’t want to hurt the feelings of those who weren’t invited?

Post # 11
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: January 2013 - Harbourfront Grand Hall

Yikes!  If your Fiance is tagged in it I believe he can request that the picture be removed.  You’re right, obviously you don’t want all your wedding details available online.

RUDE!

Post # 12
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955 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

Yeah, this wouldn’t sit well with me either.  I think your fiance should contact this couple and tell them to remove it from facebook.  His friends, his problem to deal with.

 

 

Post # 13
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714 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

@mgol25:  She should definitely take it down!! I once had a creepy guy drive 3 hours to show up at a publicly posted event that I had RSVP’d to!!

Post # 14
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Whoa whoa whoa… talk about invasion of privacy. That’s like announcing someone else’s pregnancy or something before they get to! 

Okay, a little exaggerated, but still. SO NOT COOL. I would absolutely ask them to take it down. 

Post # 15
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7901 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: March 2012 - Pelican Grand Beach Resort

Just send a polite message or ask Fiance to call to say that you are glad they are excited to have received the invitation but do not want the details shared over the internet, expecially in a public/semi-public forum.

Post # 16
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2011 - Florida Aquarium

Eh, that’s plain weird. I would never, ever post anything providing details like about other people. If she the thought the invite was cool, she could have blocked the pertinent information and posted that. (I wouldn’t do that either, but she must be a little unhinged, so that would be better, I think).

Now that she’s done it, I think I’d ask my fiance to contact her and just say, “Hey X, We’re really happy you’re so excited about our wedding! I saw that you posted our invite with all of our information visible to everyone. Would you mind talking that down? We’ll be sure to share our wedding details with all who are invited. Thanks, and we look forward to seeing you!” Or something similar. No need to point to you at all. You’re not a bridezilla. She’s a bit silly!

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