- 6 years ago
- Wedding: May 2016
Fi and had this discussion today at work. We have a Food and Beverage managner who I dislike greatly. We will call him Toad. Toad is Scum. I have a post on here somewhere about why exactly Toad is scum.
The Way Fi and I handle Toad is completely different. Fi is friendly, says hello everytime he sees toad, and acts like all the nonsence that Toad does it Ok.
I was brought up that, if you do not like some one, be polite, but to not associate with them. Rather than be fake happy to see them, or Be snarky, say nothing. Don’t speak to them unless spoken too. Answer questions poiltely.
Toad knows WHY we are unhappy with him, Stealing tips from people does not fly in my book.
Toad is in some nebulous management position that he may or may not be above my boss, but he has the Groomsmen in his pocket.
Fiance says that it is better to do things his way
I say thatToad can go play in traffic for all I care, I will not patronize a theif and pretend like everything is ok when it is clearly not, just because he May or May not be in a position of power (we are not sure what exactly he does, except play angry birds and eats).
( just as a note, I am not worried about the safty of my job. We are short on people as it is, and If we loose even one of us( the cooks) the entire resturant is fucked)
Also, if he touches me one more time he will get a sexual harassment lawsuit. Today he decided to play with my hair. He is older than my DAD.
Going to the Groomsmen is useless btw, They have been best buddies litterally since gradeschool, Toad can do no wrong.
What would you bees do?
Pretend like everything is ok?
Don’t talk to him unless he talks to me first.
Put exlax in his soup?