(Closed) A letter to a Douche Canoe

posted 1 year ago in Relationships
Post # 2
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Honey bee

Is this K or L?

Post # 4
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Honey bee

You would be better off sending this message to yourself. You knew what he was and allowed him to get close to you again after he blew you off because of panic attacks, (which sounds absolutely ridiculous). The fact that you’re this angry suggests that he was more than a friend to you. 

I’m sorry about your mother, I hope she improves.

Post # 5
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2017

Letter writing is actually pretty therapeutic. I agree with pp, pour your feelings out in this letter, and then don’t send it.

Post # 8
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Honey bee

timonandpumba :  Coronary bypasses can be very successful. I’ll think good thoughts for your mother. Take care.

Post # 9
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Honey bee

timonandpumba :  I read that post and remember neither sounded like a winner or someone worth getting involved with, but the thoughts were there. Hopefully you can lean on your friends and just ignore the BS. No reason to let drama and negative vibes in! I wish your mom a speedy recovery, and you feel better soon as well! So sorry about your grandma too 🙁 

Post # 10
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2019 - City, State

What in the world, I am lost. Anyway speedy recovery to your mom. Sorry about your grandma

Post # 11
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Sugar bee

Iam so sorry about your mother. I hope she improves and is home for Christmas.

I wish you peace.

Post # 12
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Helper bee

timonandpumba :  Screw em. My “best friend” pull some shit like this when I needed him after I had major surgery, san the note. Really most people are just selfish dickbags.

I hope your mom has a speady recovery and you are blessed with better friends in the future.

Post # 13
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Buzzing Beekeeper

timonandpumba :  

I don’t think there is any point in denying you are angry OP, you clearly are . And not really thinking straight , (sansa didn’t suggest handwriting anything  ) 

I agree with pp’s , just let the letter lie , don’t bother sending it , and certainly don’t go back on your sensible decision to keep it off social media .

However, if you feel you must communicate with K , I’d lose all the slangy dick/stunt/woodwork stuff, and the  girlfriend references  and say very simply  you feel he has been such a poor friend to you that it  is unlikely you will ever be in contact again . Wish him well for the future (ahem,  I know) and say goodbye . 

Keep your dignity here OP.  

PS, I do hope your mum recovers soon. 

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