(Closed) a little bummed out…

posted 9 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
Hostess
18637 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

I’m sorry that you are bummed out.  I’m sure that it will happen before you know it.  Even if it isn’t before your 25th birthday, it is still going to be wonderful!  Life plans are made to be broken!

Post # 4
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3587 posts
Sugar bee

(((((emilymagnolia))))

 

Post # 5
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474 posts
Helper bee

Hugs emily… I’m feeling the same way too these days

Post # 6
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10218 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 2010

((HUGS)) trust me we’re all feeling it….

Post # 7
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169 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

<p style=”padding-left: 30px;”>I’m so sorry to hear that but i truly understand. I’m going to be about 31 before i get engaged.I think they(men) dont understand that it doesnt have to be the perfect time or need a the perfect ring. Dont worry sweety it will happen.

Post # 8
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494 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

He’s probably saying that because everything is so busy with grad school…I would give him some time and maybe another semester, then bring it up again.  I’m not sure why he’d want to wait 6 months after graduation just to get engaged, but maybe you can compromise that you’ll be married by 6 months after he graduates! 🙂 When I started grad school my fiance and I had already been together for 4 years and I told him there was no way I wanted to get married anytime soon.  Now I can’t wait to get married! I think the pressures of school are probably just gettin to him.

Post # 9
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99 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

Hugs! I’m with you there :(. I love this time of year, but it seems to make the waiting even harder, especially since I know I’ll be waiting for a long time and Christmas/New Year’s is such a common time for engagements. Plus with all the family time, there’s so many questions of “are you engaged yet” and “gosh, how long has it been for you guys” to face.

Post # 10
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1280 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

I’m totally there with you!! I can’t imagine if my Boyfriend or Best Friend actually had the nerver to tell me it would be better to wait longer to get engaged BECAUSE we’d be last! Hang in there. I get not being the right time, but maybe there’s some room to negotiate? I hope there’s goos solution!

Post # 11
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408 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2010

He may just be telling you that to to throw you off….my fiance was adamant that he would not be able to propose until he finished medical school/started residency; it made since because he was a student = no salary….BUT he proposed the summer before his last yr of med school and had in fact purchased the ring a full 7 months before he popped the question…..so you never know:-)

Post # 12
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299 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Ya never know, a lot can change in that amount of time.  Sending positive thoughts your way!

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