(Closed) A little fed up

posted 7 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

Well, I don’t know. It seems like you have been very accommodating so far, so I feel like you are “allowed” to require the girls to wear their hair up, especially if you are not even forcing a certain style. It sounds like this girl just doesn’t get it and will continue to try and get her way. If I were you, I’d try to have your sister talk to this Bridesmaid or Best Man and see if she can talk some sense into the girl. 

Post # 5
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

Maybe just say “I think it looks nice, but I was really hoping you could wear your hair up to match the other girls”

Post # 6
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

I agree with pinkbubblegum, id say those exact words! & why wouldnt the other bm get her dress??? im sorry but i would have just let her go! Your being extremely flexible, the hair needs to go up!

Post # 8
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

You are being very accommodating, way to go, super bride! It isn’t unfair for you to want them to do their hair a certain way, esp if you aren’t requiring them to get it done by a professional. PP had good ideas. Stick to your guns, you are the opposite of a bride-zilla

Post # 9
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: January 1991

I think you should just tell her why you want their hair a certain way. It’s your day and of course you don’t want to seem rude, but you want yourself to stand out. Tell her you want to be the only one with an updo AND you want things to be cohesive. She doesn’t have to be everyone’s twin, but please don’t do an updo. Harder to say than it is to write… but hopefully the conversation will go well.

Post # 11
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767 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

I’m glad things are moving in the right direction. Congratulations and enjoy your wedding!

Post # 12
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Glad it all worked itself out, but u are right u have a right to request that since you have tried to do everything to help them out…. Sooo 2 more dayss, I wishh you all the best and keep us updated with picutres and the excitmentttt πŸ˜‰ good luck once again πŸ˜‰

Post # 13
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: January 1991

Omg you are changing bridesmaids and your wedding is in two days? I would be completely stressed! Goodluck girl πŸ™‚

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