(Closed) A little personal…maybe even TMI that’s why I’m posting….

posted 8 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 17
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

@foreverhis: Lol, turns out, Darling Husband REALLY likes biting. But only on the lips/earlobes. I guess everyone does have that one “thing”.

Post # 18
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

@hthesken: LOL! I’m glad I’m the only one in the office right now, because I laughed pretty loudly at that.

Post # 19
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Bumble Beekeeper

As long as neither of you crosses a line and you are both enjoying it, who cares? What goes on in your bedroom is between you and your SO. I like my hair pulled in the heat of the moment, Darling Husband likes to spank me… everyone has their quirks. lol

Plus, there are MUCH weirder fetishes than choking.

Post # 21
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2892 posts
Sugar bee

It’s fine. There would be an issue if boundaries were being crossed or someone wasn’t listening to the other. But so long as you’re careful and communicate – have fun! We all have a thing that we don’t necessarily tell our friends about. 🙂

Post # 22
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

Nah, it’s perfectly fine and healthy as long as you’re both on board and do it safely. Your bedroom, your business!

Post # 23
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5891 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2010

I think as long as you are both into it, it’s perfectly fine. I have a friend that is into so super-duper freaky stuff, but I don’t judge, just not my thing. (Although I love to hear his stories LOL)

The main thing is that you do some research on how you can continue this safely. It’s hard to use ‘safe words’ when you can’t speak. So find out how other more seasoned players handle that situation. Have fun, but play safe!

Post # 24
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2012

I’ll admit that I like being choked.  I never knew it until Fiance.  He can get a bit rough, but I don’t mind it really.  He’s always careful and will stop when I tap his arm/hand.

As others have said – have fun, but play safe! =)

Post # 25
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

Yup- Fiance and I are into that. We just make sure I can “tap out” when I’m no longer into it.

 

 

Post # 26
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

I’ve had LOTS of my best friends tell me they love to be choked. It seems pretty normal and they get a little “high” off being choked (literally, it stops the blood flow or something).

Post # 27
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Bumble bee

I think it’s okay as long as you BOTH enjoy it and no one is getting hurt.

Post # 28
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

@foreverhis: People who usually say “omg that sick” are usually doing waaayyy kinkier stuff and don’t want to admit it or are prudes. What you and your hubby do in the bedroom is honestly no one elses business anyway so I would ignore it. 

Post # 29
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

@foreverhis: Totally normal! I like it a little rough too! If it makes you feel any better I like to do quickies in public which makes me feel really dirty for admiting it LOL oh well…

Post # 31
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

All good it is just a fetish.  My SO and I have been together for 4 years too and he likes it.  I hate it won’t let him do it lol  If it works for both of you.. then go for it 😉

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