Post # 17
Member834 posts
Busy bee
- vmblai1019
- 9 years ago
- Wedding: October 2011
@foreverhis: Lol, turns out, DH REALLY likes biting. But only on the lips/earlobes. I guess everyone does have that one “thing”.
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Member834 posts
Busy bee
- vmblai1019
- 9 years ago
- Wedding: October 2011
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Post # 19
Member7774 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
- zippylef
- 9 years ago
As long as neither of you crosses a line and you are both enjoying it, who cares? What goes on in your bedroom is between you and your SO. I like my hair pulled in the heat of the moment, DH likes to spank me… everyone has their quirks. lol
Plus, there are MUCH weirder fetishes than choking.
Post # 20
Member9 posts
Newbee
Post # 21
Member2892 posts
Sugar bee
- claireos
- 9 years ago
It’s fine. There would be an issue if boundaries were being crossed or someone wasn’t listening to the other. But so long as you’re careful and communicate – have fun! We all have a thing that we don’t necessarily tell our friends about. 🙂
Post # 22
Member2977 posts
Sugar bee
- Eight6Eleven
- 9 years ago
- Wedding: August 2011
Nah, it’s perfectly fine and healthy as long as you’re both on board and do it safely. Your bedroom, your business!
Post # 23
Member5891 posts
Bee Keeper
- KoiKove
- 9 years ago
- Wedding: October 2010
I think as long as you are both into it, it’s perfectly fine. I have a friend that is into so super-duper freaky stuff, but I don’t judge, just not my thing. (Although I love to hear his stories LOL)
The main thing is that you do some research on how you can continue this safely. It’s hard to use ‘safe words’ when you can’t speak. So find out how other more seasoned players handle that situation. Have fun, but play safe!
Post # 24
Member9478 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
- Rouquine
- 9 years ago
- Wedding: October 2012
I’ll admit that I like being choked. I never knew it until Fiance. He can get a bit rough, but I don’t mind it really. He’s always careful and will stop when I tap his arm/hand.
As others have said – have fun, but play safe! =)
Post # 25
Member1042 posts
Bumble bee
- metalbride
- 9 years ago
- Wedding: June 2012
Yup- Fiance and I are into that. We just make sure I can “tap out” when I’m no longer into it.
Post # 26
Member3373 posts
Sugar bee
- PinkMagnolia
- 9 years ago
- Wedding: October 2011
I’ve had LOTS of my best friends tell me they love to be choked. It seems pretty normal and they get a little “high” off being choked (literally, it stops the blood flow or something).
Post # 27
Member1088 posts
Bumble bee
- dancinglola
- 9 years ago
I think it’s okay as long as you BOTH enjoy it and no one is getting hurt.
Post # 28
Member1235 posts
Bumble bee
- MsNarwhal
- 9 years ago
- Wedding: July 2012
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Post # 29
Member213 posts
Helper bee
- mexicanabeibi
- 9 years ago
- Wedding: July 2013
@foreverhis: Totally normal! I like it a little rough too! If it makes you feel any better I like to do quickies in public which makes me feel really dirty for admiting it LOL oh well…
Post # 30
Member9 posts
Newbee
- foreverhis
- 9 years ago
- Wedding: July 2012
Again, glad i’m not the only one! He doesn’t do it until I pass it but it def gets me going!
Post # 31
Member527 posts
Busy bee
- MrsAloi
- 9 years ago
- Wedding: October 2014
All good it is just a fetish. My SO and I have been together for 4 years too and he likes it. I hate it won’t let him do it lol If it works for both of you.. then go for it 😉
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