- vmblai1019
- 9 years ago
- Wedding: October 2011
@foreverhis: Lol, turns out, DH REALLY likes biting. But only on the lips/earlobes. I guess everyone does have that one “thing”.
@foreverhis: Lol, turns out, DH REALLY likes biting. But only on the lips/earlobes. I guess everyone does have that one “thing”.
As long as neither of you crosses a line and you are both enjoying it, who cares? What goes on in your bedroom is between you and your SO. I like my hair pulled in the heat of the moment, DH likes to spank me… everyone has their quirks. lol
Plus, there are MUCH weirder fetishes than choking.
It’s fine. There would be an issue if boundaries were being crossed or someone wasn’t listening to the other. But so long as you’re careful and communicate – have fun! We all have a thing that we don’t necessarily tell our friends about. 🙂
Nah, it’s perfectly fine and healthy as long as you’re both on board and do it safely. Your bedroom, your business!
I think as long as you are both into it, it’s perfectly fine. I have a friend that is into so super-duper freaky stuff, but I don’t judge, just not my thing. (Although I love to hear his stories LOL)
The main thing is that you do some research on how you can continue this safely. It’s hard to use ‘safe words’ when you can’t speak. So find out how other more seasoned players handle that situation. Have fun, but play safe!
I’ll admit that I like being choked. I never knew it until Fiance. He can get a bit rough, but I don’t mind it really. He’s always careful and will stop when I tap his arm/hand.
As others have said – have fun, but play safe! =)
Yup- Fiance and I are into that. We just make sure I can “tap out” when I’m no longer into it.
I’ve had LOTS of my best friends tell me they love to be choked. It seems pretty normal and they get a little “high” off being choked (literally, it stops the blood flow or something).
I think it’s okay as long as you BOTH enjoy it and no one is getting hurt.
@foreverhis: Totally normal! I like it a little rough too! If it makes you feel any better I like to do quickies in public which makes me feel really dirty for admiting it LOL oh well…
Again, glad i’m not the only one! He doesn’t do it until I pass it but it def gets me going!
All good it is just a fetish. My SO and I have been together for 4 years too and he likes it. I hate it won’t let him do it lol If it works for both of you.. then go for it 😉
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