(Closed) A Little Pickle

posted 6 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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10287 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2011

I absolutely think it needs to be addressed but I have no advice as to how to go about it considering I’m not fond of dumping bridesmaids. Regardless of how long your wedding is pushed back, you still asked these girls to be your bridesmaids so I would imagine they all assume that they still will be when you eventually get married. I can’t imagine your friend would be overly thrilled with having her son be your Ring Bearer when she’s been fired from her role but I guess it depends on how laid back she is. 

Post # 4
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

Honestly, I’d just not say anything about unless she brings it up. If you’re not close any more, she may not feel comfortable being a Bridesmaid or Best Man either so she may not even ask you about it.

Post # 5
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212 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

That is a difficult situtation. If I was asked to be someone’s bridesmaid and then we fell out of touch or were no longer as close and then I was invited to their wedding and saw them with their bridesmaids but they never mentioned it to be after the initial asking I would be hurt. I think you certainly need to talk to her about it but it could be the end of your friendship.

Post # 6
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104 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

I think that since you asked her, even if it was 2 years ago, that you need to honor that. If she wants to step down that’s another story.

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