(Closed) A Matron AND a Maid of Honor? Acceptable?

posted 8 years ago in Bridesmaids
  • poll: How do you feel about having a Matron AND a Maid of Honor?

    Sounds fine to me!

    Meh...that's a little weird.

    No way! Terrible idea!

    Other (please leave a comment!)

  • Post # 17
    2953 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: September 2014

    @mrand2008:  Who cares what people think?!?! If you want one of each, have one of each! I think it’s weird that people have 10+ BM’s but they do. It’s all about whatever suits your fancy… whether it’s one matron and one maid of honor or 10 BM’s and 10 more Biblical BMs (barf).

    Disclaimer – I’m having a Matron of Honor (big sister) and Maid of Honor (little sis) at my wedding and if someone says something, I’ll be very surprised.

    Post # 18
    3997 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: June 2014

    I think it’s a great idea (: Totally fine!


    Post # 19
    1123 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: October 2014

    I am a Bridesmaid or Best Man in one of my friends weddings. Her Maid/Matron of Honor was a girl she lived with for almost 10 Years before moving out to live with her Fiance. She also mad a Matron of Honor who is a friend she has known since childhood who is married.

    Post # 20
    1051 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2014 - Turf Valley

    I have both!

    Post # 21
    6610 posts
    Bee Keeper

    I know a lot of people who have done this. Fine by me!


    Post # 22
    321 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: October 2014

    Sounds fine to me

    Post # 23
    554 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: June 2014

    Totally fine!

    I’m having 2 Matrons of Honor and 2 bridesmaids. And I see nothing wrong with it!

    Post # 24
    2253 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: May 2013

    @mrand2008:  If it’s what you want, then it’s totally fine! There’s no rule and no one is going to say you can’t have a maid and matron of honor. 🙂

    Post # 27
    941 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: August 2014

    @mrand2008: one of my co-workers had a maid and a matron of honor at her wedding.  I think its totally fine!

    Post # 28
    583 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: August 2012 - W Hotel Silicon Valley

    I’ve been to a wedding with two maids of honor and it worked out fine! Absolutely nothing wrong with it 🙂

    Post # 29
    77 posts
    Worker bee
    • Wedding: May 2014 - Priestley-Savidge House

    I think it’s nice and it makes your wedding even more unique to you. Go for it! 🙂 

    Post # 30
    10 posts
    • Wedding: July 2014

    It’s your day, you have whatever and whomever you please Wink I have to maids of honour. Neither of them are married and I didn’t want to have to choose between them, so I have had both Laughing

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