(Closed) A niggling feeling

posted 5 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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304 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2014

OMG! You sound so awesome for not starting anything like I would have. One word: JEALOUS! Actually more words come to mind: insecure, immature, bitter, and miserable. Don’t be upset with your SO either. There are just some things men don’t get.  You rock though!

Post # 4
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304 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2014

I just had to add, the fact that they didn’t give you the time of day because of your age is quite embarassing. I hope you don’t have to hang out with these two regularly and if you do, you should definately speak up if their behaviour continues.

Post # 5
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2019

I can’t believe they said that about you, I am so sorry!

Post # 7
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1691 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

@ladyartichoke:  They’re totally jealous.  And idiots.  And pathetic.  

Post # 8
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2013 - A court...

What a bitch. Well, both of them. Agreed with pp kudos for not getting on her level… though I would’ve made comments along the lines of being mentally older than her, or called her grandma… but I’m a kiddo too 😛 

Post # 9
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Buzzing bee

@ladyartichoke:  Being young doesn’t have to be a bad thing! Since you now know that it’s something that clearly bothers her, call her out on it and rub it in her face! If she makes patronizing comments, be like, “I know you’re just being patronizing, but it’s actually nice to have a great sex drive/no wrinkles/fast metabolism/friends who aren’t jaded when you’re young. SHRUG.” Make it clear that she isn’t getting to you.

 

ETA: One time this lady in her 40s said to me, “What are you, like 16?” So I responded, “What are you, like 60?” I don’t play around! And you shouldn’t either!

Post # 10
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70 posts
Worker bee

I, too, agree that these women were just jealous of you. I’m sorry you had to go through this.

Post # 11
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: January 2013

@ladyartichoke:  yea to me she sounds jealous . I’m 25 and feel old and want to be 22 again!!! So young and free and options ahead of u (not saying I’m all washed up lol) but she is def jealous.. For sure. What a mole. I wouldn’t hang with them again!!

Post # 12
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: January 2013

  

@somethingaquamarine:  AHHHAHAHAHA LEGEND!!!!!! such a good response!!!!!!!! Some people are so funny about age ay . That woulda shut her up!!!

Post # 13
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2016

I would have been all ” yea, it’s good be be 22. No wrinkles. *winky face*.

 

But Olny in my head because I am passive aggressive like that. 

Unless you pump taquilla in me. Then I am just aggressive and don’t give a eff if I hurt your feelings. 

Post # 16
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2016

@ladyartichoke:   She scolded you for not saying please?  That would have gotten at least a ” yes mom! ” out of me, sober or not. 

Who does that!?!

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