A question from FI to the bees : Does size really matter?

posted 6 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 3
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1750 posts
Buzzing bee

@Mrsgurzakovic: YES!!!! To me size matters, of course. It is not the most important thing in a relationship but it matters. If a man is lacking in that area I really hope he makes up in other areas and is able to please his SO in other ways sexually. 

Post # 4
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: December 2004

It matters but so does the girth.  If your shaped like a piece of spaghetti, long and skinny, that’s no good either.  I would say the most important thing is knowing what to do with it.  Like they say, “It’s not the size of the waves, it’s the motion in the ocean”.  So yeah, size matters but it is just one factor.

Post # 5
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

@MrsFuzzyFace: I love the spaghetti analogy.  I totally agree,  my Fiance is quite a bit smaller than I am used to.  It’s all about finding positions that work for you.  (And lots of trial and error when trying new positions.  Go into it with a sense of humor, and no expectations).  

I am going to say it matter some, but in the grand scheme of things, it is not a big deal.

Post # 6
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Sugar bee

I think size does matter, but not in the way many men (and women) think. I personally have a, um… *ahem* short vagina, so anything longer than maybe 7 inches would be incredibly painful to work with. I think many women who think they’ve been with “huge” men really don’t understand what an inch actually is, lol – the average size in the world is 5 inches, not 9 or 10 or even 7. Most women I’ve talked to about it have said that 5-7 is more than enough. If I remember correctly, the average vaginal canal is something like 6 inches, anyway (you can stretch a bit with proper lubrication/excitement).

I think a sexual relationship can be healthy and exciting no matter what the endowment or lack-there-of.

I just honestly don’t understand the judgement of men on something they CANNOT control. It’s not like guys can go to the dick store and buy a new one.

Post # 7
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

@MissCalifornia: No, but we can go to the dick store and buy one for our own use 😀

Post # 8
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689 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

It matters as much as the size of our boobs matter to you. A certain size might be nice, but we’re happy with whatever we get.

Post # 9
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: December 2004

@Caizn:  lol, I just told my husband about your comment and he said with a laugh “That is true, that’s a good comparison”

Post # 10
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

@MrsFuzzyFace: Haha that’s what I get for having guys as the majority of my friends. I know how they think. Tongue Out

Post # 11
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Lol. I’m sure guys don’t want to hear we can buy our when we’re talking about sizes :-). I think it matters to degree but like pp said, breast size matters but we take what we can get.

Post # 12
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2010

It does and it doesn’t.  I mean, certain sizes are nice, but unless it is the size of a pinkie finger, it doesn’t matter too much…

 

Post # 14
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689 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

@Mrsgurzakovic: Uh…no. That’s definitely not a reason to leave. How superficial.

Post # 15
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: January 2012

@MissCalifornia: I agree. My canal is rather short aswell: unless I put my legs back even 6 inches pokes my cervix :S. 

@Mrsgurzakovic:  It sounds like we’re talking about here is a micropenis. The question you have to ask yourself is if it does the job. I need clitoral stimulation to orgasm so penis size is really not important to me. If you’re satisfied with your sex life that’s all that matters. If not… I would say figure it out (I don’t think penis size is a legitimate reason to end a relationship).

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