(Closed) A quick guest list related question…

posted 8 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2010 - Ceremony - First United Methodist Church; Reception - My parents' house!

Nope, nope, nope. Cut, cut, cut.

 

See where I stand on this? :p

Post # 5
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

I agree with scissors.  Despite whether or not things are ‘cool’ she’s an ex.  Would Fiance be comfortable with you inviting one of your exes to the wedding?

Post # 6
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2009

I wouldn’t invite her. You’re definitely not crazy for not wanting to!

Post # 7
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Bumble Beekeeper

No. I wouldn’t invite her. No way.

Post # 8
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: January 2011 - Vintage Villas

I definitely agree that you shouldn’t invite her. I’m an advocate of not inviting anyone that either your or your Fiance would be uncomfortable with!

Post # 10
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2010 - Ceremony - First United Methodist Church; Reception - My parents' house!

@amanda.lynn- Seconded! One of my friends was even toying with the idea of bringing a former lover of mine. (Wow, that sounds so creepy). Anyway, I told her that it probably wouldn’t be the best thing to do. She was coo’ with it. I don’t want to make Mr. Scissors sad-pants.

Post # 11
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

Pass! I would totally not be okay with her being there.

Post # 12
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: January 2011 - Vintage Villas

@scissors – Yes! I am totally with you on that one. Luckily, neither of us are still friends with any of our exes, so it didn’t really come up for us…but I just think it would be awkward to have them at your wedding!

Post # 13
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

Only read the first two lines and I decided she shouldn’t come 🙂 Why would you invite someone that makes you uncomfortable and could have been the reason you didn’t end up together!? Plus if you haven’t talked to her in over a year there’s no hard feelings…

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