- 6 years ago
- Wedding: June 2012
I was talking to my mom on the phone last night, and Fiance barges into the room and asks who I’m talking to. I motion to him that I’m on the phone.
When I refuse to interrupt my conversation, he stands right next to me and starts repeating “who” over and over again until I can’t focus on my conversation.
I express to my mom, so he can hear me how annoying it is that he is interrupting my phone conversation, and he is being incredibly rude.
When I got off the phone, he starts berating me about being secritive and not telling him who I’m talking to. We got into a huge fight. I told him I’m not trying to hide anything, but it’s incredibly rude to interrupt someone on the phone.
I told him he doesn’t need to know at that moment who I’m speaking to, and I will tell him after the conversation is over.
His argument is that he might want to say ‘hi’ to the person I’m talking to. I told him if there is someone he wants to speak to, he can pick up the phone himself. He went off in a huge huff, telling me it’s not a big deal to stop my conversation to tell him who I’m talking to.
I took some time to cool down, and then asked him very politely to please not interrupt me while I’m talking on the phone. He again blew up. He took what I said way out of proportion, told me he’d never interrupt me doing anything again, then slept on the couch!
I could not reason with him at all. He still wouldn’t talk to me this morning.
Should I have to be rude to the person I’m talking on the phone with, just to stop him from throwing a fit?
This is absolutely ridiculous, and I can’t believe we’re not on speaking terms because of it.