(Closed) A step in the wrong direction

posted 7 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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2539 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

Im sorry your going through this….but maybe this happend for a reason? its very important to take care of the IRS first…they are very scary group of people.

just try and stay encouraged…you’ll get your ring soon enough!!

Post # 4
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355 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

@wishingonadream04: awe man. That is a huge bummer! stupid IRS… like the government doesnt have enough money. Ugh. So sorry. Well I guess look at it like this,  its not like 1000 or something. hopefully 500.00 wont take too long. good luck girl

Post # 5
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6256 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: March 2014

@strangewaysherewecome: Haha, the government DOESN’T have enough money!

 

But OP, that’s not your problem, and kudos for wanting to check it over and make sure it’s legit. There are a lot of scammers out there.

Looks like you have three options at this point: 1. Wait, 2. settle for a much smaller diamond and upgrade later, or 3. Consider moissanite/colored gemstone/white sapphire/CZ. Moissanite has a lot of the properties that make diamonds desirable for long-term wear, and they are really pretty. Might be something to consider if you really want to be married soon more than you want your dream ring. 

Post # 6
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3220 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: February 2012

here’s an idea– what if he proposes with a simple ring (which can later be your wedding band) and then you can get the engagement ring later?

Post # 8
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192 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

@wishingonadream04: I know the IRS thing sounds scary, but you can setup payment plans with them, and pay as little as $25 a month. Just an option to think about, if your guy doesn’t have the funds to take care of it right away.

Post # 9
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1363 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

Awww, I’m sorry. It’s like that movie UP. It describes Darling Husband and I to a tee. Something else always comes up. Or wasn’t it John Lennon that said “Life is what happens when you are making other plans?”

Keep your chin up. the good $500, not $5000 that he owes!

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