(Closed) A stupid Vent

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
1315 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

I think you need to tell her, chick! If you’ve always been the independent one, maybe she truly just doesn’t realise that you want her around for your 1st wedding day!

Post # 4
1901 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

In my opinion, you can’t have your cake and eat it too. You can’t tell everyone that this ceremony isn’t a big deal to you, when clearly it is if you are going to be upset that your mother doesn’t want to celebrate with you afterwards. I don’t think you can get upset about your mother when you said that you have made it clear its not a big deal. Obviously it is, so you should tell your mother that. I’m sure if she knew how you felt about her being there, she would be there. But if she thinks you are just going to grab lunch afterwards because you all need to eat, and its not some big celebration, she thinks she can skip it to do something she had previously planned. I think this is a miscommunication, and can be easily fixed, but your mother can’t read your mind, so tell her how you feel.

Post # 5
1883 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

I bet if you ask her to be there she will be there. By telling her it’s not a big deal, she may think you are politely telling her that you want it to be just you and your soon to be husband.

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