(Closed) A Thank You Note Quandry…

posted 8 years ago in Etiquette
  • poll: Do I write a group thank you or 8 individual thank you's to DH's colleagues?
    Write a group thank you - with 8 people that you don't really know, things could get interesting. : (4 votes)
    24 %
    Write each gift giver an individual thank you - don't treat this any differently than any other gift : (13 votes)
    76 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
    2006 posts
    Buzzing bee

    Did they all attend your wedding?

    I think if they actually attended your wedding I would mail a thank you to each person, thanking them for the gift and spending time with you at the wedding.

    If they didn’t attend your wedding and just gave you a nice gift in advanced I would write one group thank-you and send it to your hubby’s office so they can pass it around there.

    Post # 4
    Hostess
    18637 posts
    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2009

    I agree if they all attended the wedding, they all deserve a thank you.

    Post # 6
    Member
    2006 posts
    Buzzing bee

    I would write the groomsman a thank you and send it to him personally.

    I would then write a second thank-you to all the colleagues, including the groomsman on this one too, and send it to the office.

    Post # 7
    Member
    435 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: December 2010

    I would probably have the groom write the thank you cards for his co-workers……

    Post # 8
    Hostess
    18637 posts
    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2009

    I agree with babyboo.

    Post # 9
    Member
    9053 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2010

    I agree that I’d send a single thank you note to the groomsman and a single note to all the co-workers.  Our office gave us a group gift from some people who weren’t invited and that’s what I did.  I also included a couple pictures.  I knew it would end up in our office “read and initial”.

    Post # 11
    Member
    384 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: May 2011

    I voted that they each should get a thank you, but I wanted to specify that Fiance should write the thank yous.

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