Post # 1
My fiancée’s sister got married this past summer and now she thinks she’s urge ultimate party planner!!! I don’t really want her assistance unless I ask for it because she thinks if she doesn’t like it then it can be changed. What do I tell her? Then she thinks she will automatically be the matron of honor. I don’t want to be rude and say STFU!!! Lol
Post # 3
Don’t talk to her about the wedding. If she brings it up, either tell her that you’re all set with whatever it is, or that you aren’t ready to think about that yet. Don’t talk to her about the bridal party at all, or just flat out tell her who you ARE choosing as your Maid/Matron of Honor.
Post # 4
Start doing things on your own. Get your family more involved and whoever you chose for your Maid/Matron of Honor start letting her go with you and help you make decisions. This will show her without saying to her that you dont need her help.