- 4 years ago
- Wedding: October 2014
The FI and I are planning on writing our own vows…neither of us is religious and we aren’t having a minister or such performing the ceremony. I have been googling on how to write your own vows because seriously, every time I think about it I start getting the hiccups. It’s weird. But I found a site that says a vow date would be a good idea. Like you and your FI go out to dinner/on a date and discuss the things that have happened in your relationship. All the fun times, the trips, the moments that they remember best…because they are sure to remember something that you have forgotten about.
Has anyone else done this? Or did you ever discuss your vow writing with your FI? Was it a complete secret? I like the idea of the date…so was just wondering what others did when they were writing vows.