Post # 1
long time lurker, first time poster. Just wanted to introduce myself on the board!
My SO and I have been talking about engagement and rings, and future marriage plans for the last 3 months. At first, it started innocently. Sort of like “hey, if I asked you to marry me tomorrow, would you?” – But now, it’s blatant. We are looking at rings together. It’s become the elephant in the room. It seems like we ALWAYS talk about engagement. Like, it’s literally the only thing I talk about. I need some advice. How can I shift the focus off of the engagment process, and more about how much we love eachother? Truth be told – I’d stay with him my whole life without even being engaged if he was opposed to marriage… but now that we’ve started talking about it… I’m OBSESSED.
Post # 3
Pehehe I have no advice, I’m in exactly the same position. Just enjoy the excitement and stalk the Bee 24/7 😛
Post # 4
dont worry I became like this when we first started talking about getting engaged. Just try not to focus on it too much and concentrate on your relationship. Mr Bee’s plan is also great to read. I still have my bad waiting days and very impatient day but I have found that focusing on myself, going out with the girls and taking up a hobby have really helped me! Also try not to talk to him about it too much or he will eventually get crabby.. I try not to bing it up at all now (its super hard) and only talk about it if he brings it up. Just stalk the bee and speak to your girlfriends 🙂 EEE how exciting for you !!!!
Post # 5
An I the only one who thought you got an actual bunny instead of say, a promise ring?