(Closed) A WAITING vent

posted 8 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
2588 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: February 2014

It’s a valid question, though–there are many reasons for wanting to get married, and it might be helpful for you to look at the REAL reason behind it. Is it really because you have a house? Or is that a shield for a deeper issue? Just some food for thought! Making your blog private might not be a bad idea, either.

Post # 4
46606 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

I wouldn’t think of offering a comment about “why you want to get married?” That’s none of my, nor anyone else’s business.

What I will say though is “Why would you be surprised to get such comments from strangers on a public blog?”

Post # 5
18637 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

@MsMamaBear: Wow that’s so rude to me.  Maybe they were trying to be devil’s advocate though and trying to help you?  My tone comes off wrong sometimes on the internet.

Post # 6
1543 posts
Bumble bee

@MsMamaBear: To quote an 80’s/90’s sitcom star, “How rude!” I would have gotten snarky back, though. I’d have said, “um, well, this is the love of my life, and I want to live life to the fullest with him every second of every day. Who knows what tomorrow brings?”



Post # 9
2317 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: January 2012

I would think the answer’s obvious. I would think it’s normal to want your relationship to progress towards that. In any case some ppl have no tact. Putting some post private mightn’t be a bad idea


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