(Closed) A wedding and a Divorce

posted 8 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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1986 posts
Buzzing bee

If they made it 29 years, chances are good that they can be grown ups about the whole thing right? I’d have a sit down with both of them and see what they think.

Post # 4
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2010

Like the PP said, they’re both adults and seeing that you’re wedding is still 7 months away I’m sure you will be able to make the necessary accommodations if need be. 

I’m sure that your mom is just happy that you’re happy. Unless it was a messy reason for the divorce (adultery, abuse, etc) I’m sure it was a mutual thing and she’ll be even more into it…maybe.

Post # 5
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 2010

Oh, that must be such a trauma.

I am sorry to hear this.  I’d suggest talking to them & letting them know how you feel, maybe after things settle down a bit.

 

Post # 6
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2009

The timing is a little different but my parents announced they were divorcing after 25 years about 6 months after I met my future husband.  We got engaged two years later and I had the same concerns but they were completely unfounded.  Your parents don’t have nearly as long but it is still 6-7 months.  Hopefully they can hold it together.  After that long they surely must know how to put on a good face and be adults about it.

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