(Closed) A wedding planner and a fat bridesmaid?

posted 10 years ago in Waiting
Post # 17
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

@PinkPinstripes: I was just about to type the same thing.  I have 8 women in my bridal party, and I honestly could not tell you anyone’s size aside from my sister.  And that’s only because we’re the same size and we share clothes. 

Post # 18
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: March 2020

Is thsat second comment a joke?

Post # 19
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2006 posts
Buzzing bee

@vista: are you talking about my comment? or the second portion of the original post? If you are talking about my comment I just realized I made a huge typo (meant to say ISN’T instead of IS) and I sounded just as vain as the OP!!

Post # 20
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1288 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2010 - Indiana Memorial Union

Bridesmaids aren’t props.

Post # 21
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Helper bee

🙁

…wow. Umm I think if you need to ask our opinions if you’re being “vain” by wondering if you should not include your FUTURE SISTER IN LAW because she is fat, then you have a slew of issues that we cannot help you with.

I urge you to read your original post again and really do some soul searching.

 

Post # 22
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Bumble bee

Dear lord, I really hope this is one of those fake posts to get people worked up!  If not… well, my mama told me not to say anything if I couldn’t say something nice.

Post # 23
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

WOW!!  You sound Like a joy !

Post # 25
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

@christalynn – That’s what I was thinking.

This surely can’t be for real…

Post # 27
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Bumble bee

You have a good relationship with her?!  HA!  You just called her FAT on a public forum!  I’m rolling…  And feeling REALLY sorry for you, because I’m willing to bet inside all that “fat” she’s a human being.  Don’t know if you can claim the same thing!

(aw crap, I shoulda listened to mama…)

Post # 28
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

Im really hoping you are a troll and just looking to a rise out of people making a post like that, in every possible way you made yourself sound out to be a very horrible person, throwing tantrums and not asking family to be in a wedding cause people are smaller then her….disgusting.

This is the hardest response i have ever had to type bc i dont want to stoop to your level and write anything nasty….but seriously?!!

You are getting married…its not about the wedding. Your marriage should be surrounded by the people you love even if they happen to be black, white, yellow, orange , pink and a size 10, 56, 100, 2, or 8. Get over yourself.

Post # 29
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

“ModernDaisy, ever consider that he is just as vain as I am?”

 

–wow– wow — wow–

 

If your both vain…. What are you going to do if you happen to have overweight children, cut them out of family photos?

Post # 30
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Helper bee

@AKAengr – so you alluded to the fact that your boyfriend is just as vain as you…so if you told him that you didn’t want his sister in the wedding because she is too fat, then he would be okay with that and wouldn’t take any offense?

Post # 31
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Do you mind sharing how old you are?

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