(Closed) Accidentally invited someone to my bach. party

posted 6 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
209 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

Did she reply that she would go to your bach party?  If she says yes… then I’m not sure what you should do… but if she can’t make it, than I wouldn’t worry about sending her an invite to the wedding.  If she asks about it later, explain that you invited too many people & now you are over your max.

Post # 4
501 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

If it were me and she showed up to my bach party, I still would not invite her to my wedding. I know it is rude, but if you do not want her there then she shouldn’t be there. Maybe text her back and let her know that you wedding is limited to your closest family and friends, but would love to have her come celebrate your bach party if she is up for a girls night. I have been invited to Bach parties of girls who did not invite me to their wedding. I wasn’t hurt and didn’t feel offended. I am having a few girls at my party this weekend who were not invited to my wedding. They are all okay with it as far as I know. We are doing a small Destination Wedding, so they were okay with it….of course they are my really close friends so they knew and understood the situation.

Hopefully she won’t show up to the bach party and you can forget about it.


Post # 5
1375 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I know it was an honest mistake, but if she decides to attend the shower and bachelorette party, she really should be invited to your wedding.  Either that or you can explain to her that you didn’t mean to send her that text/not invite her to the wedding, but either of those options will come off as rude.

Post # 6
280 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

If you really don’t want her to go, and if you aren’t really that close, then just be honest with her:it was a mistake.  Mistakes do happen, and if you’re not great friends with her now anyways then you don’t really have much to lose by telling her it was accident.  If you’re not comfortable saying it was you who did it, maybe say it was your Maid/Matron of Honor grabbed your phone and sent a message to people?  Apolgoize for the miscommunication, wish her well, and move on.

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