(Closed) accidently closed my topic shower without mom

posted 4 years ago in Family
Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2011

That is just freaky.  Sorry you got a lemon for a Mother-In-Law.

Post # 4
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2014 - Italian Villa

That’s really odd. I agree with PP and say just let her do it, she’ll look like a fool. Although some might assume you decided not to come, not that you weren’t invited. Is your other shower before or after this one?

If your other shower (you know, the one you are attending) if before, I might make it known (without sounding bitter) to his family who comes to yours that you are not allowed at the other shower to clear things up.

Post # 5
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Bumble bee

I want a webcam there so I can see how this works. How can you  be invited to your own shower???    to sit there and watch her open presents and make a stupid bow hat for herself would entertain the shit out of me.    

Post # 7
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Newbee
  • Wedding: March 1999

What does she think she is going to do with all the gifts?  

Post # 8
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Bumble bee

I was going to ask if she was still attending yours.   I would disinvite her too. Why add stress to a happy time in your life.  

Post # 9
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

per123:  My guess is, she’s going to keep all of the stuff at her house to use because she thinks they’re going to let her spend a bunch of time watching the baby.

Post # 11
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2015

I wondered why you closed that last one – you cut me off mid-rage!

It’s beyond outrageous! But also kind of funny. Baby is yours so can’t you just not hand over baby? I love that your shower is first so you can just inform the guests of the hilarity. I certainly wouldn’t go to MIL’s shower knowing you weren’t there. Send LO off covered in bibs and clothes saying ‘mummies little girl/boy’. Hopefully she won’t have chance to change LO before the shower 😉

Post # 14
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Bumble bee

Glad he’s standing up for you. i wonder if she’s intending to keep the gifts for when she was going to baby sit??    I wanna know what meds she’s on. 

Post # 15
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Bumble Beekeeper

jazzyb2016:  

“who has a shower and doesnt tell or invite the pregnant mom..”

Your crazy Mother-In-Law that’s who ! Thank heavens the real shower is first. But do keep us posted won’t  you !

 

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