Accommodating Dietary Restrictions

posted 2 years ago in Food
  • poll: What dietary restrictions did you accommodate?
    Vegetarian : (53 votes)
    27 %
    Vegan : (35 votes)
    18 %
    Kosher : (6 votes)
    3 %
    Lactose Intolerant : (27 votes)
    14 %
    Gluten Free : (37 votes)
    19 %
    Nut Allergy : (32 votes)
    16 %
    Other, which I'll comment with below : (4 votes)
    2 %
  • Post # 2
    Member
    906 posts
    Busy bee

    Do you know if any guests actually have these restrictions? 

    Post # 3
    Member
    682 posts
    Busy bee

    We are accomodating everything; but our caterer has been really flexible and amazing.

    We are also having a buffet but i’m providing the caterer with the names and diet restrictions for everyone, he will then make individual plates for those people at no extra cost. Most of our dishes can easily be adapted though (eg. duck salad with blue cheese, he’ll make a small batch without the duck/blue cheese). So we aren’t doing large quantities of diet restricted dishes, but they will be adapted for whatever is needed

    Post # 4
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    284 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: July 2017

    I’m pretty much willing to accomodate any dietary restrictions. I have a few people in my family that are vegan (my young nephew eats meat, but is allergic to dairy so this often leads to vegan side dishes). My brother in law has a nut allergy, so I’m also taking that into account with our food options. 

    Post # 5
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    939 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: May 2019

    We aren’t having a buffet, so it works a little differently for us. We’re going to offer chicken and beef, and either fish or vegetarian. Our venue told us they could work with us for dietary restrictions, so we don’t necessarily need to offer a meal that will accomodate everyone. People can reach out to us with their restrictions (veggie, gluten free, allergies, etc.) and the venue will make specific dishes for them. 

    I know we’ll have at least one dairy free, one vegetarian, and one gluten free person in attendance so that’s what I voted for. I think you have the main things covered – maybe you could double check and pick a vegetarian entree that also works for vegan, or is also gluten free? That way you could kill two birds with one stone. I think it’s unnecessary to offer a meal for every dietary restriction out there, so I’d try to pick two and accomodate those.

    Then if people reach out to you and say “hey I’m allergic to nuts” or “hey I’m vegan” you can accomdate them individually on a case by case basis.

    Post # 6
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    286 posts
    Helper bee

    I plan to accommodate all dietary restrictions, to the best of my ability. It will be on my RSVP card. Just make your vegetarian option vegan (which would also make it kosher and lactose intolerant-friendly). That makes that one easy.

    With my first wedding, I accommodated everything. Vegan, vegetarian, gluten-free, diabetic, kosher, nut allergy.

    I know with this wedding, I have at least 4 vegans (including myself), a few vegetarians, at least four gluten-free, a couple diabetic, one nut allergic, and one kosher. I will make sure there is a full meal for each of them to eat.

    Post # 7
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    5811 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: July 2018

    Even with buffets usually your caterer will make up special plated meals for those with dietary requirements so I would ask on your RSVPs for guests to supply this information. 

    Post # 8
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    844 posts
    Busy bee

    We had guests list dietary restrictions on the RSVP card and accommodated everyone. We had a buffet so it was easy.

    Post # 9
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    5816 posts
    Bee Keeper

    We had several vegetarians, a few guests with nut allergies, one guest gluten free and one guest lactose intolerant. 

    For nut allergies, which can be life threatening, I had the entire buffet nut free. Not something to take chances on and people with more severe allergies can be affected even by airborne or cross-contamination, not just by eating a meal that contains nuts. 

    For vegetarians, I made sure there were lots of vegetarian options- including main dishes, not just sides. And for some dishes, like pasta, meatballs and sausage were served on the side so that the dish itself was vegetarian but meat-lovers could add what they wanted. Ditto the cheese. Our caterers provided gluten free for our gluten free guest, including separately made buns/ rolls. 

    I’m surprised at the threads on here with unaccommodating caterers, ours were amazing- and this is how they get referrals! 

    Post # 10
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    9683 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: August 2012

    We just had a note on the RSVPs to contact us with any dietary restrictions. No one did.

    My Mother-In-Law did have a freak out the day before because her cousin or something had surgery and could only eat “baby food” consistency food. I’m like…sorry lady. They’re gonna have to bring their own stuff lol.

    Post # 11
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    1380 posts
    Bumble bee

    We chose a menu (buffet) that would work for most of our guests and that we liked. For those who have restrictions and can’t eat a large portion of the food we are having a separate plate made with similar tastes.

    So instead of pork our vegetarians will get a plate of tofu marinaded in the same sauce as the pork (obviously before any meat has touched it). And we’re going on a case by case basis to figure this out.

    Post # 12
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    2032 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: August 2015

    We accommodated every restriction. Just have separate meals prepared for these guests.

    Buffets can be difficult for people with restrictions. It’s my least favourite way to eat; I’m a vegetarian and I can eat eggs, lactose, quinoa, or edamame beans. I’ve attended more than a few weddings with buffets and dinnertime was difficult. That is why we did plated meals. Just took the guesswork and hassle out of the equation.

    Post # 13
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    3425 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: June 2017

    mrsjoseph :  our whole menu was gluten-free and shellfish-free (because my husband is celiac and allergic). on our RSVPs, we asked guests for any dietary restrictions, and accommodated them individually.

    we had one vegetarian, one no pork (only 1 passed app had pork, so this required no action), one no nuts (had their salad prepared without), and one friend who is allergic to everything so we had a special entree made for her without the sauces and got a detailed ingredient list from the caterer so she could make choices about what to eat safely (she was in our bridal party and it was important to us that there was sufficient food that she felt comfortable eating).

    Post # 14
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    134 posts
    Blushing bee

    lyfe_girl :  Just FYI (and you probably know this since you accommodated Kosher at your first wedding) but a vegan meal isn’t automatically kosher. All vegan food is kosher by default for it’s lack of animal products, but not all vegan food holds a hechsher (the special certification to mark products/food as kosher), which means religious Jews won’t eat it. Also, all utensils used to prepare kosher food (and countertops, ovens, etc…) must be kosher. 

    We’re having a kosher reception for our wedding and it’s been a learning curve for me!

    Post # 15
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    372 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: November 2025 - City, State

    Which restrictions your caterer will need to accommodate depends on which restrictions your guests have.  If Aunt Melinda has celiac disease, they’ll need to provide a gluten free meal for her.  If no one is vegan, you don’t need to have a vegan option.

    Just ask the caterer how they handle dietary restrictions, in general.  If you already know that Omar from your fiance’s college dorm keeps to a halal diet and Grandpere Francois won’t touch red meat, you can ask about those specifically.

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