(Closed) Adding a moh late?

posted 6 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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370 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

If you were considering asking a friend to hop on the Maid/Matron of Honor wagon late in the game I’d think that you might offend your original Maid/Matron of Honor. But since it’s your sister I think if she’s a great friend she’ll be open to it if you have a conversation with her before you ask your sister.

If it were me, I’d first let her know how helpful she’s been and that she’s doing an amazing job and that I couldn’t ask for more. Then I’d ease into telling her that while everythings been great, that I can’t help but keep thinking that I really really want to also have my sister as maid of honor too. Then I’d ask if she minded. Big hugs when she says “No! Of course not!”

Post # 4
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Newbee
  • Wedding: September 2013

@rvrtplus2:  I don’t know much about the timing, but I do not that it’s not out of the ordinary to have two. I am currently Maid/Matron of Honor 1 of 2. My best friend asked me and another friend to do the honors because she couldn’t decide. But she was honest with us about it, and it’s worked out well. I am here in state with her, while the other is out of state. (It has also lessened the amount of money and planning that we have because it’s shared!) As long as you are honest, and explain your reasoning, I can’t imagine that a close friend would be angered at you wanting to include your step-sister!

Good luck!

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