(Closed) address etiquette help

posted 11 years ago in Paper
Post # 3
19 posts

Mr. Dude’s Name and Ms. Girlfriend’s Name – “Mr. John Smith and Ms. Jane Doe”


Don’t worry about the doctorate unless he’s a medical doctor.

Post # 4
2470 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

yup oregon has it, I think. Does this guy prefer to be called Dr. though? If he prefers his title,you can put Dr. John Doe.

Post # 7
203 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2020

Woman goes first if unmarried or married and she didn’t change her name. So, it should be:

Ms. Jane Smith

Dr. Jim Johnson

Post # 9
19 posts

We did the “and” instead of seperate lines for unmarried couples living together who were in a romantic relationship (not roommates). It’s not “technically” correct etiquette, but I have had friends (especially same sex couples) who are offended when their relationship is treated similarly to roommates! I think in this case, when the couple in question has been together 20+ years, it would be appropriate to acknowledge their relationship status.

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