Post # 16
My Grandmother is a widow. The address envelope was “Mrs. John P. Doe” and the inner was “Grandmother”.
I’m also a widow and the last wedding invitation I recieved was “Mrs. J. Paul Doe”. My husband went by his middle name. The inner envelop was “Jane”
Post # 17
We did all of ours to Mr and Mrs Surname. I can tell you know I would be really annoyed to receive anything to Mr and Mrs hisfirstname Surname.
Post # 18
It really bothers me to receive an invite that Mr and Mrs John Doe, erasing the woman’s name from the address. As PPs have said, it’s 2016, and I think this piece of etiquette could use an update.