(Closed) Addressing my invites… not sure…HELP .. kinda long :(

posted 8 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
Hostess
18643 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

I would just make sure to have a rule across the board.  If no one has a guest unless they are in a long term relationship, then all people in long term relationships should get guests and the others should not.  Honestly, if I were the one paying, I probably wouldn’t have let the guest list get so big.  Your families can whine all they want but they aren’t the ones paying so they don’t really get a say.

Post # 4
Member
1927 posts
Buzzing bee

I agree that it sucks that your families forced such a large guest list on you when you are paying.  MissAB is correct.. as long as the rules are the same for everyone you are absolutely not required to invite people with a guest as long as they are not married or engaged.

Post # 6
Member
3762 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

I agree, no +1 unless we have met the SO, the were living together, or engaged. 

Explain you have to keep your numbers down!

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