(Closed) Addressing Save the Date Cards

posted 8 years ago in Paper
Post # 3
149 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

Just address the save-the-date to her, not him.

Post # 4
1927 posts
Buzzing bee

I would just address it to her for now.  Since it’s not a formal invitation you still have the ability to add guests in the future.  If she questions it or gets upset that her boyfriend wasn’t listed just tell her that the Save the Dates were more casual and not an indication of the final invitation list.  I assume they don’t live together so she should understand why mail would be addressed to just her.

Post # 6
51 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

The Save the Dates do not need to be addressed as formally as the invites. Just address them to whoever you are inviting, in this case your friend and then when it comes time for the actual invites, it would be to your friend plus her date and you should find out her dates name before you send the invite.

Post # 8
9053 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2010

We did a very limited release of save the dates, just to the main people that we really wanted to save the date.  Not nearly all the people we eventually ended up formally inviting. 

I say just send it to her only.

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