Post # 1
A good friend of my FI’s is about to separate from his wife — she is moving out of their house next week. Clearly it’s an awful situation; he is saying he thinks they’ll get back together eventually but who knows.
We got our Save-The-Date Cards the other day and will be sending them out over the next few weeks. I’m wondering … how should we address the one we send to this friend? While she won’t be living there when we send it, it also seems rude to leave her out, especially if they continue to have some kind of relationship.
Post # 3
I have the same problem…two couples I know have separated between the time we sent out our Save-The-Date Cards and now the invitations. I’m planning to send two separate invitations to each member of these couples (at their new addresses), and let them work it out on their own.
Post # 4
Cherrytomato’s idea seems like a good idea.
The only other thing I can think of is to call (or e-mail) both members of the couple and see what they think- "We’re getting ready to send out invitations and just want to be sensitive to what you guys are going through right now. We hope you both can join us, but will understand if you can’t."
Post # 5
I agree with Cherry. If they aren’t living together at the time you send them and you intend to invite them both, just send them both a Save The Date to alleviate any awkwardness.
Post # 6
I would absolutley send two STD’s and invites.