(Closed) Addressing STD/invitation for separated friend

posted 9 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
67 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: May 2009

I have the same problem…two couples I know have separated between the time we sent out our Save-The-Date Cards and now the invitations.  I’m planning to send two separate invitations to each member of these couples (at their new addresses), and let them work it out on their own.

Post # 4
2434 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2008

Cherrytomato’s idea seems like a good idea.

The only other thing I can think of is to call (or e-mail) both members of the couple and see what they think- "We’re getting ready to send out invitations and just want to be sensitive to what you guys are going through right now.  We hope you both can join us, but will understand if you can’t."

Post # 5
752 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2016

I agree with Cherry. If they aren’t living together at the time you send them and you intend to invite them both, just send them both a Save The Date to alleviate any awkwardness.

Good luck!

Post # 6
225 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 1969

I would absolutley send two STD’s and invites.

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