(Closed) Addressing STD’s

posted 9 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2010

Glad you posted this, since I don’t the answer and we have to send ours out this week. 

Post # 4
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Newbee
  • Wedding: April 2010

We just sent it to the main person, even if we knew that they had a girlfirend/ boyfriend, and on the couples living together we put both names. On the invitations though, I think we’ll write names of boyfriends/ girlfriends, but we’re not doing bring a date if you’re not in a relationship.:) If you’re doing inner envelopes for invites I would just address it to the single person on the outside and on the inner envelope I’d say John Smith and Guest 🙂

Post # 5
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2010

For save the dates?  Unless the couple is married or living together you don’t need to address the save the date to the “plus one”, just the person you’re inviting.  Of course, if you’re very good friends with them both you could always opt to send them both save the dates.  

Oh – and one thing I didn’t realize until I got engaged – linking two names with “and” indicates they are married.  So if they live together, both names should go on separate lines (unless of course it is a same sex couple you would otherwise consider married laws permitting).

For your actual invites, if you’re doing inner envelopes you can put both names.  

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